Saturday, October 20, 2012

Life happens..

Have you ever waited for something to happen? Hoped for it? Prayed for it, even? ..yeah? Well, I don't know about you, but I have. There have been times in my life where I have hoped and dreamt of something happening so much that when it doesn't I am left broken (on the floor...yeah, no?) and disappointed.

..and then there are times when you're not praying or hoping for something to happen, and then it does. It's like they say: when you stop thinking about it, focusing on it, that is when it will happen. I don't know if I really believed that before, I still don't know if I fully do, but I am convinced that there is some truth in that statement. It's not like I am writing this years after something happened, it is happening now, so I might not have as much perspective as someone who has gone thought this and written about it after the fact has, but fuck that. 

What I am talking about of course, is a boy..(isn't it always?) To be honest I am just so scared at this moment in time. I am scared to fall. I am scared to get hurt. I am scared to open myself up completely, and I know that might sound dumb, and I get that people will say stuff like: "If you never try then you'll regret it." "What if this is IT." "It's going to be fine, don't worry." Well, that's exactly the thing, I worry. I worry all the time. I worry about getting hurt, I worry about opening up, I even worry about being too happy. Because I am so scared that one day I'll wake up and it'll all be gone. Because sharing yourself with someone that completely, and I don't mean just sexually (..because I worry about that too), but emotionally, it's not the same as having a best friend it's deeper, because this person has the potential to hurt you worse than anyone, because they will most likely get to know you in a way no one else knows you. 

..and that, is fucking scary. 

Well, now you know all that, I will leave you with some music by the amazing Lana Del Rey, because I am obsessed with her music lately. So amazing.

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